Well, it has been a while. I have been missing in action from my beloved blog since we started renovating last September. We purchased a rental property. We had great intentions of working hard as a family and building our future together.
It was a romantic notion. The reality of six months of renovating was much more stressful.
By Christmas, I hadn’t taken a single day off since the start of September. I was eating terribly. I put on weight and I couldn’t motivate myself to get outside and exercise, my vice to keep my head clear. Every morning I woke up in tears.
Last week one of my key staff members resigned. The reason? Being a Partner in an Accounting firm is no longer her dream. She sees me running around, juggling children, husband and career. She tells me my lifestyle is not what she wants out of life. And she is not the first female to say that to me. It is almost funny – how many strong, intelligent and driven women can I put off actually having a career and a family?
And to top it off. Tonight my 13-year-old daughter threatened to kill herself. Why? Because I said no to her plans for an overseas holiday. I don’t think I need to explain how I felt about this. Needless to say, there were a lot of tears involved.
So, I’ve been missing in action from my blog – but not much has really changed. We are still working, and working, and working. The kids have suffered, likely so has our marriage – although we are miraculously still together!
I think we took on too much… But I am not going to dwell on this. This is not something to think through and plan and plan and plan. It is time to act. Time to take ownership.
Happy ever after starts now
My husband will resign from work next month. It will leave a great big hole in our budget. But it is time to finally be brave and to make the changes in our lives that we have dreamed about for so long.
This is the start of a new journey. My journey as the Breadwinner, with a stay at home husband. Our story of how we will survive giving up $130K a year. But we will fill that hole with family, and with love.
Life had been going pretty smoothly over the last few months. I’d dropped a couple of volunteer positions, learned to say no to work commitments, and even turned up for the odd school outing! I was exercising, going to relaxation yoga, and enjoying spending quality time with my family without stressing about work.
But you know what happens when a busy workaholic finally slows down? They find something else to do.
And I did.
Over the last few weeks, we have been in the process of buying another house. It is old and run down and needs a complete renovation. We have been busy measuring it up, picking carpets, shopping for kitchens, appliances and curtains. Booking in carpet and floor sanders and builders and painters. Not to mention the usual stress of dealing with the lawyers and the bank. And today we got the keys.
As you know we have been thinking a lot about what we want out of life. We have been looking at whether our busy chaotic lifestyle is for us. Which it may not be.
However, if we want to make changes in our lives, we need to do something about it.
We can’t just keep going to work every day, making money, spending money, and in five years time realising we are in the exact same position as we are today – just with a few more grey hairs and the girls looking at moving out of home.
Yellowstone took my breath away. I thought it would be a great place to travel. But it well and truly surpassed my expectations. Another iconic stop in our Amazing Journey that will be etched in my heart, and in my children’s memories, forever.
Planning your trip to Yellowstone
When it comes to planning your trip to Yellowstone, its best to remember there are distinct areas and themes – geysers, wildlife, hot springs, and the Grand Canyon of Yellowstone. There is so much to see and do and you could easily spend a lifetime exploring the park. In fact, people do. Our fishing guide was a retired scientist who, together with his wife, spent every summer in their RV at Yellowstone – working and exploring. There is always something new.
The sheer size of the park makes it difficult to get around. There can be hours of travel between these areas. Particularly if you have bear jams, or snow, or traffic!
The other thing to consider is the season. We were there in June, and it snowed. A lot. Luckily we had a cabin, but the poor tents suffered. And it was freezing – meaning the iconic Grand Prismatic was just a huge bowl of steam.
My biggest regret at Yellowstone? Only allowing three days. The iconic Yellowstone could be a destination all on its own.
We entered the park from the North East Entrance, straight into Lamar Valley. This worked well logistically, as the Lamar Valley was quite isolated from where we were staying at Lake Yellowstone Hotel. It also meant we got to explore the Bear Tooth highway on the way into the Park.
Yellowstone NP has abundant wildlife, but the Lamar Valley is particularly recommended for wildlife spotting. The Valley is home to bison, black bears, bighorn sheep, elk, grizzly bears, mule deer, pronghorn, and wolves.
One of the first things that struck us about Yellowstone, before we even spotted the animals was the smell. We couldn’t pick it, but the air just smelt like fresh herbs. It turns out it was wild Thyme. You can spot it in this photo, the wild Sage and Thyme are growing like grass and the smell in the air is just amazing!
Next time – I’d love to allow for an early morning at Lamar Valley in the hope of hearing to the wolves’ cries and spotting a few bears!
Canyon Visitors Centre and the Junior Ranger Programme
With the weather turning, we decided to spend a few hours at the Canyon Visitors Information Centre. It was a great place to explore, to get out of the weather, and to plan the rest of our stay at Yellowstone. The girls also signed up for the Junior Ranger Programme.
Having visited a number of the United States National Parks, I have to say how impressed I was with the Rangers, the helpfulness of everybody, and the incredible Junior Ranger Programme! On signing up the girls were given booklets to work through, learning about the Park, its history, the environment and how to look out for the wild animals. The girls learnt so much on this trip, through hands-on experiences that they would never have had in school.
On completing the Junior Ranger Programme the girls were duly sworn in by the Rangers and given their badge. What an amazing programme!
The Grand Canyon of Yellowstone
As the Grand Canyon was on the way to our cabin at Lake Yellowstone Hotel we decided to stop in for a quick visit and hike down to the Lower Falls Brink. I didn’t quite know what to expect, but it was breathtaking.
One word of caution, this hike is steep. But we managed it with the family, so you should be fine with a modest level of fitness.
Unfortunately for us, it started snowing about now so it was a quick hike UP the hill to the carpark.
Lower Falls Brink
And the view from Artists’ Point.
View from Artists’ Point
Old Faithful and the Upper Geyser Basin
The next day, we awoke to MORE snow. But it did make for beautiful photos, and a good day to explore the Old Faithful Inn.
Around Lake Yellowstone
The Old Faithful Inn made a great spot to sit with hot chocolates and wait for ye Old Faithful. IF we had more time, I would have loved to have taken a tour of the building and learnt more about its history. Another free tour put on by the Rangers.
The Old Faithful Geyser is a must see. If not just because of its iconic status, but also because you are guaranteed to see it go off. There is a great sightseeing spot on the deck of the Old Faithful Hotel (hot chocolate in hand!).
Unfortunately, the Grand Prismatic was full of steam, and we couldn’t really see much at all. Apparently, it happens when it snows.
And to top it off – the parking was next to impossible. We were at Yellowstone in June, in the shoulder season. The traffic and parking in July would be extremely difficult. Unfortunately, Yellowstone doesn’t run shuttles like some of the other National Parks.
This is Yellowstone though, and there are plenty more bubbling mud pools, geysers and steam pits to explore.
Miss M was getting exhausted with the long days, so we decided to head over to the Mammoth Hot Springs area. It was a good hour and a bit drive so it gave her a chance to have a snooze in the car (this became a routine on our trip – early starts, late nights, and afternoon naps for our 7-year-old…). But it worked. See, a smile!
Luckily it had stopped snowing by day 3 when we had pre-booked salmon fishing on Lake Yellowstone! I’m not really a keen fisherperson, but how could you not go out on Lake Yellowstone?
Although the fish weren’t biting we learnt a lot about the history of the lake and heard stories about the old zoo on the island and the rogue that built it. We even spotted early morning wildlife out for a stroll, as well as native Eagles flying low over the lake.
Eating and Sleeping in Yellowstone
In terms of the accommodation, you can book this a year out. I thought we had plenty of time, we didn’t. We were lucky and managed to get the last cabin. Given there were no cancellation fees, I would book as soon as you possibly can, even if you need to change later.
Although the cabin had no cooking facilities, there was a fridge and with a little creativity, you could self-cater. We had stocked up with plates, bowls, knives, forks, cups etc at Walmart, as well as food supplies. We were able to self-cater with cereal for breakfast and picnic lunches. For dinner, we had pre-made salads and cold meats. We rewarded ourselves on our last night with dinner out at the Lake Yellowstone Hotel!
A trip to Yellowstone wouldn’t be complete without hanging out in one of the iconic lodges. We took the ooportunity to relax, and have a cocktail, while waiting for dinner at the Hotel.
Catching up with diary entries at Lake Yellowstone Hotel
The Hotel offered fine-dining US style, amongst power cuts. I tried Buffalo (these are not Yellowstone Buffalo, they are farmed for the purpose).
And we got to enjoy the views … well, we did after I asked to be moved (they initially tried to put us in an obscure corner where the children couldn’t disturb their other guests … not my style, our girls have table manners and we were there to enjoy the surroundings as much as the next guest!).
Fine dining at Lake Yellowstone Hotel – even with children!
Lake Yellowstone and Fishing Village
The sun has finally come out for a beautiful drive around Lake Yellowstone on our way out of the park.
Yellowstone is an absolutely amazing and iconic destination. We crammed in a lot for our short timeframe. They were long days and we were all exhausted, but it was absolutely worth it.
I’m not sure I’ll get back to Yellowstone anytime soon, it is quite a hike from New Zealand. But maybe one day Hubby and I will be the oldies parked up in the staff RV village working and exploring the park :).
This blog is part of the Amazing Journey Series.
Five years ago we re-evaluated our lives and our goals after the sudden loss of my mother in law. We vowed to slow down and to enjoy life with our small children. We got outside and explored. And we travelled. This Amazing Journey series documents our journey through Canada and the US, provides an insight on travelling with children, local destination tips and tricks, and, of course, gives an Accountant’s perspective on making the most of your holiday dollar. Earlier entries are here:
I am the first to dread Mondays in our house. I suffer horribly from the “Monday Blues”. But I’m done with it. It’s not helping me or anybody else, so I’m turning over a new leaf. Welcome to POSITIVE MONDAYS!
This week it’s back to work as normal. I’m slowly recovering from the flu, and my brain is almost functional again. I just got a pay rise (not sure if that is a good thing, or if it just adds to the handcuffs, but an interesting topic to explore later…). And, if all goes to plan, we may even buy a house this week!
I wish you all a fantastic week, with whatever it is you are doing. Remember:
“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love – then make that day count!“ Steve Maraboli
The Beartooth Highway is a 68 mile All American Road that winds its way through Montana and Wyoming, leading its travellers to the iconic Yellowstone National Park. At 3,337m high, there is some serious elevation – a bag of chip bursting elevation in fact! Starting from around 1,600m in elevation, you start your climb starts in grassy meadows, travelling through switch-backs and steep zigzags, past banks of snow, and skiers blasting past your window.
We flew into Billings Airport, as the closest airport we could find to Yellowstone National Park, that didn’t cost an extremely exorbitant amount (i.e. Jackson Hole). Billings turned out to be a great place to pick up a rental, stock up the car, and find cheap accommodation. I have to provide a recommendation here for the Hilltop Inn. This was the cheapest hotel accommodation in our entire trip, and it provided free breakfast. The room was huge, and to top it off there was a microwave and a fridge so we could self-cater a family dinner (with the help of a hot chicken from Walmart!). Would love it if they didn’t use disposable plastic for EVERYTHING though, a little better for the environment if they used glasses, plates, knives, forks etc instead of the single-use plastic variety – wrapped in another layer of plastic for hygiene.
The Beartooth Highway
We had three amazing All American Roads on our bucket list for our US Trip – the Beartooth Highway, the Big Sur Coast Highway, and the Tioga Pass (technically a National Scenic Byway). Unfortunately for us, a storm took out a key bridge on the Big Sur Coast Highway, and the snow didn’t clear from the Tioga Pass by the time we travelled through in early July – which left only the Beartooth Highway.
Even then, the Beartooth Highway was CLOSED the day before we left Billings. Hubby was devastated, knowing the Big Sur was closed, watching the snow reports daily for the Tioga Pass, and refreshing the Beartooth Highway website hourly for updates to see if it was going to open. In the morning when we were due to leave Billings the hotel staff gave us the good news – it was open. For now. Get moving… We knew we were still hours away from the start of the Highway, but we took the risk. We were very lucky. It was closed again the next day!
It’s Friday and it’s time to celebrate the weekend!! Unfortunately, I’m still doing Dry July so I won’t be seeing in the weekend with the traditional Friday night glass of wine (OK, the reality is it’s probably more like a bottle!)
I’ve been back at work this week after our beautiful holiday in Taupo. Here’s a little snapshot (proper blog to follow shortly):
Miss M and I exploring Taupo whilst Hubby and Miss T are off skiing without us…
I’ve also been a bit quiet on the blogging side. But truth be told, there is a reason for that!
If you’ve been following along you will know that it is currently school holidays in New Zealand. If you’re new to this blog, welcome! Anyway, it is currently school holidays, and I’ve got a week off work to spend with my girls.
It all started out great, with traditional hut making and sleepovers, and a touch of roller skating… And that is where it started to go wrong (unbeknown to me). Miss M was complaining of a sore wrist after a fall on the roller skating rink. She could still move her wrist in all directions, bend her fingers, and do everything else a wrist is supposed to do. So we decided to put an ice pad on, and give it a day or so to settle down.
A few days later and the wrist was still sore. The X-Rays revealed a sprain. The Doctors were a little more concerned. And this is the result:
I was so proud of the girls today. We managed to have a great day, without devices – wet and windy wild weather and all.
After a treat for breakfast (bacon and egg baps, with coffee from the cafe around the corner for Hubby and I), I took the girls roller skating. Although Miss M has been skating before, she is still very much a learner, and this was Miss T’s first time on a skating rink. After a few false starts, they had a ball. They raced each other and the clock. There were “musical spots”, “show off your tricks” (i.e. manage not to fall over), and skating “limbo” (not surprisingly, the tiny tots on wheels won this one!). A hurt tailbone and a sore wrist later, they can’t wait to come back! All for a $2 entry fee! A bit of frugal family fun for my new better budgeting segment I think.
The girls – in a good mood – even helped me with grocery shopping on the way home. Well, not sure if “helped” is the right word, but they certainly took it upon themselves to fill up my trolley for me…
After lunch we did the traditional childhood thing and had the neighbourhood children over for an afternoon of hut building, playing board games, making a banana cake for afternoon tea and pizza for dinner. Followed of course by ice cream sundaes.
Somehow we have been convinced that the neighbour should stay for a sleepover. They dragged the spare TV into the hut, snuggled up in the piles of cushions and blankets under fairy lights and sheets and watched a movie. And that is where they are now. In the hut, on the floor, snuggled up in blankets and cushions. Not quite asleep.
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