lifestyle, Parenting

Solving those work nightmares

October 24, 2018

Work nightmares.  You know the ones.  Those that make you toss and turn at night.  You can’t stop your mind from going a million miles an hour.  Trying to solve problems all night long.

These dreams have been a curse for me for a long time.  A stressful case at work will keep me up all night.  So will urgent deadlines.  An early morning flight will have me dreaming about sleeping through my alarm clock and waking up to a taxi in the driveway!

Worst of all are those dreams where I’m actually making up the problems – real or not.

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Budgeting, lifestyle, Parenting, Renovation

Some people spend their holidays drinking cocktails …

October 12, 2018

Some people spend their holidays drinking cocktails.  I am envious.  I would love to sit by a pool in the sun drinking Pina Coladas.  It reminds me of our time in Fiji, a jug of Pina Colada, sun loungers, a two-year-old playing at our feet.

But this holidays it was not to be.  This week I’ve spent my precious annual leave sanding, cleaning, stripping wallpaper, pulling staples out of the floor, and learning to wallpaper.  This girls have been bored out of their minds, and have been fighting like crazy.  The novelty of stripping wallpaper wore off after the first weekend.

But we are building a future for our children and ourselves.  There are a lot of sacrifices we have to make, but it will all be worthwhile in a few months when the house is complete.

And at least I can say I have learned something new!

Because life will only change when you become more committed to your dreams than your comfort zone [Billy Cox].

This was my first ever attempt at wallpapering (“after” photos to come):

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Master Bedroom – work in progress

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Master Bedroom – “before”

 



 

Budgeting, lifestyle, Parenting

Stressed is just Desserts Backwards!

September 24, 2018

I can be a bit of a stress junkie.  I have a bad habit of overloading myself, and then turning into Mumzilla.  Not exactly conducive to a calm home environment.  Our lives can be a little chaotic.

However, this year we have been doing pretty well.  And although the year started out at full noise, as it progressed, work-life balance was coming back.

The problem being, as you may know, that we have just started a major new project.

The Project

We have purchased an investment house.  And it is in dire need of repair. Continue Reading…

Budgeting, lifestyle, Parenting

Paintbrushes and retirement planning…

September 20, 2018

Life had been going pretty smoothly over the last few months.  I’d dropped a couple of volunteer positions, learned to say no to work commitments, and even turned up for the odd school outing!  I was exercising, going to relaxation yoga, and enjoying spending quality time with my family without stressing about work.

But you know what happens when a busy workaholic finally slows down?  They find something else to do.

And I did.

Over the last few weeks, we have been in the process of buying another house.  It is old and run down and needs a complete renovation.  We have been busy measuring it up, picking carpets, shopping for kitchens, appliances and curtains.  Booking in carpet and floor sanders and builders and painters.  Not to mention the usual stress of dealing with the lawyers and the bank.  And today we got the keys.

Why?

As you know we have been thinking a lot about what we want out of life.  We have been looking at whether our busy chaotic lifestyle is for us.  Which it may not be.

However, if we want to make changes in our lives, we need to do something about it.

We can’t just keep going to work every day, making money, spending money, and in five years time realising we are in the exact same position as we are today – just with a few more grey hairs and the girls looking at moving out of home.

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lifestyle, Parenting, Travel

The Iconic Yellowstone NP – An Amazing Journey Series

September 6, 2018

Yellowstone took my breath away. I thought it would be a great place to travel.  But it well and truly surpassed my expectations.  Another iconic stop in our Amazing Journey that will be etched in my heart, and in my children’s memories, forever.

Planning your trip to Yellowstone

When it comes to planning your trip to Yellowstone, its best to remember there are distinct areas and themes – geysers, wildlife, hot springs, and the Grand Canyon of Yellowstone.  There is so much to see and do and you could easily spend a lifetime exploring the park.  In fact, people do.  Our fishing guide was a retired scientist who, together with his wife, spent every summer in their RV at Yellowstone – working and exploring.  There is always something new.

The sheer size of the park makes it difficult to get around.  There can be hours of travel between these areas.  Particularly if you have bear jams, or snow, or traffic!

The other thing to consider is the season.  We were there in June, and it snowed.  A lot.  Luckily we had a cabin, but the poor tents suffered.  And it was freezing – meaning the iconic Grand Prismatic was just a huge bowl of steam.

My biggest regret at Yellowstone?  Only allowing three days.  The iconic Yellowstone could be a destination all on its own.

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Lamar Valley

We entered the park from the North East Entrance, straight into Lamar Valley.  This worked well logistically, as the Lamar Valley was quite isolated from where we were staying at Lake Yellowstone Hotel.  It also meant we got to explore the Bear Tooth highway on the way into the Park.

Yellowstone NP has abundant wildlife, but the Lamar Valley is particularly recommended for wildlife spotting.  The Valley is home to bison, black bears, bighorn sheep, elk, grizzly bears, mule deer, pronghorn, and wolves.

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One of the first things that struck us about Yellowstone, before we even spotted the animals was the smell.  We couldn’t pick it, but the air just smelt like fresh herbs.  It turns out it was wild Thyme.  You can spot it in this photo, the wild Sage and Thyme are growing like grass and the smell in the air is just amazing!

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Next time – I’d love to allow for an early morning at Lamar Valley in the hope of hearing to the wolves’ cries and spotting a few bears!

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Canyon Visitors Centre and the Junior Ranger Programme

With the weather turning, we decided to spend a few hours at the Canyon Visitors Information Centre.  It was a great place to explore, to get out of the weather, and to plan the rest of our stay at Yellowstone.  The girls also signed up for the Junior Ranger Programme.

Having visited a number of the United States National Parks, I have to say how impressed I was with the Rangers, the helpfulness of everybody, and the incredible Junior Ranger Programme!  On signing up the girls were given booklets to work through, learning about the Park, its history, the environment and how to look out for the wild animals.  The girls learnt so much on this trip, through hands-on experiences that they would never have had in school.

On completing the Junior Ranger Programme the girls were duly sworn in by the Rangers and given their badge.  What an amazing programme!

The Grand Canyon of Yellowstone

As the Grand Canyon was on the way to our cabin at Lake Yellowstone Hotel we decided to stop in for a quick visit and hike down to the Lower Falls Brink.  I didn’t quite know what to expect, but it was breathtaking.

One word of caution, this hike is steep.  But we managed it with the family, so you should be fine with a modest level of fitness.

Unfortunately for us, it started snowing about now so it was a quick hike UP the hill to the carpark.

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Lower Falls Brink

And the view from Artists’ Point.

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View from Artists’ Point

Old Faithful and the Upper Geyser Basin

The next day, we awoke to MORE snow.  But it did make for beautiful photos, and a good day to explore the Old Faithful Inn.

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Around Lake Yellowstone

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The Old Faithful Inn made a great spot to sit with hot chocolates and wait for ye Old Faithful.  IF we had more time, I would have loved to have taken a tour of the building and learnt more about its history.  Another free tour put on by the Rangers.

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The Old Faithful Geyser is a must see.  If not just because of its iconic status, but also because you are guaranteed to see it go off.  There is a great sightseeing spot on the deck of the Old Faithful Hotel (hot chocolate in hand!).

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Old Faithful

Grand Prismatic

Unfortunately, the Grand Prismatic was full of steam, and we couldn’t really see much at all.  Apparently, it happens when it snows.

And to top it off – the parking was next to impossible.  We were at Yellowstone in June, in the shoulder season.  The traffic and parking in July would be extremely difficult.  Unfortunately, Yellowstone doesn’t run shuttles like some of the other National Parks.

This is Yellowstone though, and there are plenty more bubbling mud pools, geysers and steam pits to explore.

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Mammoth

Miss M was getting exhausted with the long days, so we decided to head over to the Mammoth Hot Springs area.  It was a good hour and a bit drive so it gave her a chance to have a snooze in the car (this became a routine on our trip – early starts, late nights, and afternoon naps for our 7-year-old…).  But it worked.  See, a smile!

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Lake Yellowstone

Luckily it had stopped snowing by day 3 when we had pre-booked salmon fishing on Lake Yellowstone!  I’m not really a keen fisherperson, but how could you not go out on Lake Yellowstone?

Although the fish weren’t biting we learnt a lot about the history of the lake and heard stories about the old zoo on the island and the rogue that built it.  We even spotted early morning wildlife out for a stroll, as well as native Eagles flying low over the lake.

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Eating and Sleeping in Yellowstone

In terms of the accommodation, you can book this a year out.  I thought we had plenty of time, we didn’t. We were lucky and managed to get the last cabin.  Given there were no cancellation fees, I would book as soon as you possibly can, even if you need to change later.

Although the cabin had no cooking facilities, there was a fridge and with a little creativity, you could self-cater.  We had stocked up with plates, bowls, knives, forks, cups etc at Walmart, as well as food supplies.  We were able to self-cater with cereal for breakfast and picnic lunches.  For dinner, we had pre-made salads and cold meats.  We rewarded ourselves on our last night with dinner out at the Lake Yellowstone Hotel!

A trip to Yellowstone wouldn’t be complete without hanging out in one of the iconic lodges.  We took the ooportunity to relax, and have a cocktail, while waiting for dinner at the Hotel.

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Catching up with diary entries at Lake Yellowstone Hotel

The Hotel offered fine-dining US style, amongst power cuts.  I tried Buffalo (these are not Yellowstone Buffalo, they are farmed for the purpose).

And we got to enjoy the views … well, we did after I asked to be moved (they initially tried to put us in an obscure corner where the children couldn’t disturb their other guests … not my style, our girls have table manners and we were there to enjoy the surroundings as much as the next guest!).

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Fine dining at Lake Yellowstone Hotel – even with children!

Lake Yellowstone and Fishing Village

The sun has finally come out for a beautiful drive around Lake Yellowstone on our way out of the park.

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Next time?

Yellowstone is an absolutely amazing and iconic destination.  We crammed in a lot for our short timeframe. They were long days and we were all exhausted, but it was absolutely worth it.

I’m not sure I’ll get back to Yellowstone anytime soon, it is quite a hike from New Zealand.  But maybe one day Hubby and I will be the oldies parked up in the staff RV village working and exploring the park :).

This blog is part of the Amazing Journey Series.

Five years ago we re-evaluated our lives and our goals after the sudden loss of my mother in law.  We vowed to slow down and to enjoy life with our small children.  We got outside and explored.  And we travelled.  This Amazing Journey series documents our journey through Canada and the US, provides an insight on travelling with children, local destination tips and tricks, and, of course, gives an Accountant’s perspective on making the most of your holiday dollar. Earlier entries are here:

The Mickey Mouse guide to the value of money – saving for the dream family adventure

4000 miles, 5 weeks and 2 kids – an amazing journey series part 1

It all starts now – an Amazing Journey series – part 2

Vancouver with two children, walking shoes and the man flue – an Amazing Journey series – part 3

Bear Spotting in Jasper National Park

Icefields Parkway

Lake Louise and Banff National Park

Bear Tooth Highway

Coming up – RV Life…

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Parenting

I am the happiest person in the world!

August 30, 2018

Tonight at bedtime my daughter said to me “Mummy, I’m the happiest person in the world, happy, happy, happy!”.

“Why are you so happy?” I asked her.

“Because I have the best Mummy in the whole wide world!”.

Well.  I didn’t expect that one.

I haven’t done anything special.

Thinking back on the day:

  • I made her cry this morning when she was mucking around and we were trying to get out the door.
  • I confiscated her special toy when she refused to put a jumper on.
  • She had to go to after-school care while I worked.
  • Hubby picked her up, made dinner, asked her how her speech went and was generally the primary caregiver for the night.
  • I finally got home after the girls’ dinner, just in time for the Girl Guides run and bedtime.

So what did I do to deserve this?

I was just me.  I gave her cuddles, showed her I loved her and was there to tuck her into bed.  And that was enough.

As much as we feel the guilt of being away from our children, and the tug of that invisible umbilical cord, us Mums need to stop beating ourselves up about our “failures”.

Just being there, being present and in the moment, is enough.

We are enough.  We can be happy.  Right here, right now. Be in the moment.

Take care,

XX

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Happy Monday!

August 19, 2018

I am the first to dread Mondays in our house.  I suffer horribly from the “Monday Blues”. But I’m done with it.  It’s not helping me or anybody else, so I’m turning over a new leaf.  Welcome to POSITIVE MONDAYS!

This week it’s back to work as normal.  I’m slowly recovering from the flu, and my brain is almost functional again.  I just got a pay rise (not sure if that is a good thing, or if it just adds to the handcuffs, but an interesting topic to explore later…).  And, if all goes to plan, we may even buy a house this week!

I wish you all a fantastic week, with whatever it is you are doing.  Remember:

“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love – then make that day count!“
Steve Maraboli

Have a great week!

XX

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lifestyle, Parenting

Doing your best does not mean working yourself to breaking point

August 13, 2018
work-life balance

A friend reminded me recently that doing my best does not mean working myself to the point of a breakdown.  And I thought I had been doing quite well with this whole work-life balance thing!  Oh well.  Sometimes we are good at kidding ourselves.

Last week I made myself very ill.  It started with a cold.  I went to work.  I spread my germs around.  Then I went to Sydney for a conference.  My daughter said to me “Mummy I don’t want you to go to Australia, you don’t have to work when you are sick”.  I said I do, and her response “but not always Mummy”.  I could put this conversation down to childhood innocence and idealism.  But she was right.

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Parenting, Travel

The Beartooth Highway Photo Diary – An Amazing Journey Series

August 3, 2018
Beartooth Highway

The Beartooth Highway is a 68 mile All American Road that winds its way through Montana and Wyoming, leading its travellers to the iconic Yellowstone National Park.  At 3,337m high, there is some serious elevation – a bag of chip bursting elevation in fact!  Starting from around 1,600m in elevation, you start your climb starts in grassy meadows, travelling through switch-backs and steep zigzags, past banks of snow, and skiers blasting past your window.

The Itinerary

We flew into Billings Airport, as the closest airport we could find to Yellowstone National Park, that didn’t cost an extremely exorbitant amount (i.e. Jackson Hole).  Billings turned out to be a great place to pick up a rental, stock up the car, and find cheap accommodation.  I have to provide a recommendation here for the Hilltop Inn.  This was the cheapest hotel accommodation in our entire trip, and it provided free breakfast.  The room was huge, and to top it off there was a microwave and a fridge so we could self-cater a family dinner (with the help of a hot chicken from Walmart!).  Would love it if they didn’t use disposable plastic for EVERYTHING though, a little better for the environment if they used glasses, plates, knives, forks etc instead of the single-use plastic variety – wrapped in another layer of plastic for hygiene.

The Beartooth Highway

We had three amazing All American Roads on our bucket list for our US Trip – the Beartooth Highway, the Big Sur Coast Highway, and the Tioga Pass (technically a National Scenic Byway).  Unfortunately for us, a storm took out a key bridge on the Big Sur Coast Highway, and the snow didn’t clear from the Tioga Pass by the time we travelled through in early July – which left only the Beartooth Highway.

Even then, the Beartooth Highway was CLOSED the day before we left Billings.  Hubby was devastated, knowing the Big Sur was closed, watching the snow reports daily for the Tioga Pass, and refreshing the Beartooth Highway website hourly for updates to see if it was going to open.   In the morning when we were due to leave Billings the hotel staff gave us the good news – it was open.  For now.  Get moving… We knew we were still hours away from the start of the Highway, but we took the risk.  We were very lucky.  It was closed again the next day!

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Food, lifestyle, Parenting

What I learned from being sober

August 1, 2018

On 1 July I pledged to give up alcohol, and I signed up for Dry July to raise funds for people affected by cancer.  A month later and I’ve reached my goal, I’ve abstained from alcohol and I’ve raised $249.75 for Look Good Feel Better, to help people living with cancer.  And I’ve been surprised with what I’ve learned along the way.

Why I gave up alcohol

I had a number of reasons for giving up alcohol and signing up for Dry July.   Firstly, I was looking forward to the health benefits of not drinking for a month.  Secondly, I’ve also lost too many people I love to the hideous illness.

I lost my father to cancer over 15 years ago.  Despite his fight, he didn’t make it to my graduation.  He wasn’t there to walk me down the aisle at my wedding.  And he never got to meet his beautiful grandchildren.

Recently we also lost one of my daughter’s school friends, at eight years old.  A little girl who loved cats and princesses.  A little girl who didn’t make it to her 9th birthday.

Dry July felt like something I needed to do this year.  Something positive.

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